Let's be honest—marriage is a big deal. It's not just about the perfect wedding playlist or the dress that makes your heart skip.

It's about the person you'll wake up next to when life feels like a mess and the one who'll cheer you on when your world starts falling into place.

So, how do you know if you're truly ready to say "I do" to the right person? Here are 10 clear, heart-level signs that you're not just in love—but in love with the right person for the long haul.

How Do You Really Know They're the One?

Love can feel like fireworks, but lasting connection runs deeper. Not sure where your relationship stands or just want a fun, reflective moment with your partner? Try taking the Rice Purity Test!

Originally designed for students, it's now a lighthearted way to explore life experiences—and spark meaningful conversations. You might be surprised how a silly quiz can open the door to a deep connection.

Before you walk down the aisle, here are 10 signs that show you're not just in love—you're choosing the right person to spend forever with.

1. You Can Be Completely Yourself Around Them

No pretending. No walking on eggshells. Just you—messy bun, weird jokes, and all. If your partner makes you feel safe enough to be your authentic self, that's huge. The right person won't just tolerate your quirks; they'll love them.

Example: You sing off-key in the car, and they harmonize with you instead of asking you to stop. That's love.

2. You Fight… But Fairly

Let's be real—arguments will happen. But the right person doesn't hit below the belt or storm off at every disagreement. You both try to understand each other, listen, and come back stronger. Respect stays in the room, even when tempers flare.

3. You Share Core Values

Looks fade. Chemistry cools. But shared values? They stick. If you both see eye to eye on the big stuff—like family, money, faith, or future goals—you're building on solid ground. It's not about agreeing on everything but moving in the same direction.

4. They Celebrate Your Wins (Big and Small)

Found $10 in an old coat? They cheer. Landed your dream job? They're already planning a celebration dinner. The right partner isn't threatened by your success—they're your loudest cheerleader.

5. You Trust Each Other—Deeply

Trust is more than just "I believe you won't cheat." It's trusting that they'll show up when you need them, keep your secrets safe, and hold your heart with care. If you never feel the need to snoop or second-guess, you're in good hands.

6. They Make the Boring Moments Better

Life isn't always a rom-com. Sometimes, it's grocery runs, folding laundry, and waiting in line at the DMV. But with the right person, even the boring stuff feels better. You laugh. You connect. You just enjoy doing life together.

7. You're a Team

It's not "me vs. you." It's "us vs. the problem." The right person works with you, not against you. Whether it's planning a budget or dealing with family drama, they're by your side—not adding to the stress.

8. You Can Picture Growing Old Together

When you imagine the future—gray hair, slow walks, weird slippers—you see them by your side. It's not just about the next 5 years; it's about the next 50. And that thought makes you feel warm, not scared.

9. They Apologize and Forgive

Nobody's perfect, but the right person knows how to say "I'm sorry" and mean it. They don't hold grudges or weaponize your mistakes. And when you mess up? They extend the same grace you give them.

10. You Just Know—Deep Down

It's hard to explain, but if you're with the right person, something just clicks. There's peace, even in uncertainty. You don't feel pressured or anxious. You feel sure. And that quiet confidence speaks louder than words.

Final Thoughts

If you nodded along to most of these, you're probably standing beside someone truly special. Remember, there's no "perfect" partner—just the right kind of imperfect who fits beautifully into your life.

Marriage isn't just about finding someone to live with—it's about finding someone you can't imagine living without. If you've found that person, hold on tight. You're one of the lucky ones.